🤔 Stress or no stress?


Engaged training

Resilience * Emotional Regulation * Self Control

I've seen a few posts going around lately advocating for use of tools that use pain or fear to apply stress to a dog to help them learn.

The trainers promote the idea of a false dichotomy - either you bubble wrap your dog and never progress.. stuck in ineffective training, OR you use e-collars, prong collars, and other tools to either apply stress or to suppress behaviours when a dog is put into stressful situations..

Stress isn’t the enemy—it's a normal, healthy part of life.

Every dog, whether they struggle with reactivity or not, needs opportunities to stretch, grow, build resilience, and experience the joy of overcoming challenges.

However - effective trainers know how to use stress in ways that don't take away our dog's sense of safety.

Safety - physical and emotional - always comes first.

Here's a video of me intentionally putting Jubilee in a stressful situation.

✅ Was it stressful for her? Yes.

✅ Did she learn? Yes

✅ Did she succeed? Yes

✅ Did she feel safe at all times? Also Yes.

Starting Dec 6th!

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✅ Perfect for puppies, adult dogs, and even reactive dogs

✅ Short, fun games you can weave into daily life

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